My DS is now almost 20 months old and is still not walking/talking. I am on the brink of making a GP appt but thought I would see if anyone else out there can offer support/advice. DS is a very active, lively little boy who can crawl at an amazing pace and is happily cruising around the furniture and standing (when supported). In fact he spends an awful lot of time standing (clinging on to a piece of furniture). He has taken one or two small steps with great encouragement from myself and DH, but always collapses to the floor. He is fully weight bearing and does not have any unusual habits. He doesn't bottom shuffle or 'crab crawl' or stand on his toes, and he can get up and down the stairs no problem. He sat unaided at about 7 months and crawled at 11 months, nothing particularly late. What is so frustrating is that he appears completely normal in every way, except he just cannot walk. It's driving me mad and although everyone tells me he will walk when he is ready I am starting grow more concerned. My other DS (who is now 5 1/2 yrs old) walked at 14 months and I didn't even give walking a second thought, it just happened. I have always encouraged DS no.2 but am questioning if I have done enough to help him. I now pull him up and make him walk (rather than carry him) as much as I can around the house....he can walking holding my hand and seems to enjoy it and we do this lots. But soon as I let go he is back to crawling. Help!! He also has not said his first word yet which worries me. He babbles and laughs all the time but still has not even said 'mamma' or 'dadda' despite us talking to him all the time and encouraging him. My older DS was also delayed with his speech so I am not all that surprised. Older DS said virtually nothing until he was nearly 3 and I was so worried I took him to a speech therapist who said he was normal and indeed he started to talk shortly after. Both my boys are a joy and have lovely personalities, and I am a stay at home mum who is always with them and nurturing them. I take DS no.2 to Mumbabes every week and messy play and I have lots of friends and a close family so we are always out and about doing things. All in all a very conventional lifestyle. I just don't understand these delays.
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Almost 20 months old and still not walking or talking
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Robsie · 29/07/2011 08:51
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