Hello
I have made the decision not to go back to work after having DD2 (7mo).
DD1 (2 + 5 months) coped quite well with the birth of DD2 - obviously there was and still is the usual jealousy but she seems to love her too. However she is much shyer and more clingy when we are out and about than she used to be when she went to the childminder's 3 days a week.
I know she used to go to lots of playgroups and that there were always billions of kids around at the childminder's. As a result she always used to be very at ease in a group of kids and adults. I do try to go to playgroups and do social things but DD1 seems to be getting more and more clingy and less likely to run off and play with other kids. She will eventually, but often by the time she's thawed it's time to go home!
What can I do to help her be more independent and, frankly, happier? I'm starting to wonder if my staying at home is the wrong decision for her.
TIA (and sorry if I don't reply immediately; DD2 has just woken up).
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DD less outgoing since I stopped working
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plantsitter · 18/07/2011 10:29
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