My 6 years old DD went to play at a friend from her class, and came back asking my DH if he "sexed" mummy!?! Her friend who is only 6 1/2 said to her that she sexed that boy, who is the same age... Because of the age, DH told our DD that it is not the way to speak about it and went through to explain things in a more childish way... which she knew already which is the way to have babies (the question came accross months before about how to make babies)! Anyway, last week she went for another play there and was fine when I collected her but then the following morning she was in tears when she found a piece of paper that the friend gave her, it was a kind of homework that her friend said that she needed to do and if she didn't do it, she would lock her up in her garden shed, would not give her any food, leave her in the dark until she dies!!!! Once a week we collect that friend to go to music lesson and now how DD doesn't want to have her friend in our car or have any playtime at her home. It is tricky because the other mum can't take her DD to music lesson as she has a younger DD, and it gets disruptive! The mum lives by herself with the 2 girls and was very unwell at the beginning of the year and i did everything to help her out... but now find it hard to speak to her about what her DD has said to my DD. She is lovely but then I know that she could get unpleasant if she doesn't want to hear what I have got to say. Her DD obviously needs help because I can't understand how and why a child that age would know how to say things like that! How can I approach the subject in the nicest way? For our DD, I would like to not have to collect her daughter anymore. DD said that at school it is fine, but it is only when they are both together that she gets bossy and not nice... even at the back of the car when I am driving! Sorry I just thought to write on Mumsnet and gets some help here...
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Bossy and not nice, how do you tell her mum?
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sunandmoon · 04/07/2011 17:50
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