My mother (59) and daughter (2.8) have fallen out and I don't know what to do. My mum came to stay on Monday for a week, she looked after my DD and DS (10months) all day Tuesday for the first time ever. Since Wednesday morning DD has been throwing tantrums and not allowing her granny near her. At first I said 'Just ignore her I'm sure it's just because of yesterday' but then she (my mum) broke down crying, said she couldn't cope with the way DD was treating her and I needed to address her behaviour. Since then whenever DD says something 'mean' (We're going swimming now granny without you) she is saying 'mean' things back (Fine, I didn't want to go with you anyway). Aaaargh. It's now Saturday and they're still at it, with my mum giving me pointed looks whenever DD says something.
I just need some MN advice on what to do with either of them because I'm at a loss...
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Mother and daughter at war
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leroymerlin · 25/06/2011 16:37
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