DS1 is a lovely sweet boy but his recent behaviour is awful and I need some advice. I'll try and be brief. He is just 4. Ds2 is 2 and Dd is a baby. Behaviour has deteriorated since dd born although he is great with her. He fights with his brother all the time, often in retaliation but he is so rough. When we have friends around he annoys them constantly and just wants to play rough games. I am policing him constantly and now I seem to be getting at him all the time. When we told him tonight (after a particularly bad day) there wad no more wrestling with his Daddy (which he loves) and no more 'fighting' progs (Batman, Ben10 etc) he got v upset. He says that he just wants to wrestle with children all the time and can't help himself.
I adore him and he is so lovely when we are spending time together. I feel like ive tried so hard to improve things, reward tokens, time out, making time alone with him, all with varying degrees of success. Now we are withdrawing things we know he likes doing.
I am sure it's a combination of bring ready for school/ having younger siblings/ bring a naturally boisterous child but I can't carry on like this. He is always 'that child' when we are out and it's getting me down.
Btw his behaviour at pre school is impeccable.
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At end of my tether with 4 year old....help
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TooManyBrownies · 22/06/2011 19:10
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