dd is almost 4 and has never been any trouble when out and about although she can be naughty at home.
in the past if she has asked for something in a shop, she knew sometimes we said yes soemtimes we said no and sher accepted that and we carried on.
the last month, as soon as we get to a shop she starts saying im hungry, im thirsty, can i have a snack, can i have a drink, can i have a toy.
i explained today that we were only going to be 5 minutes getting fathers day cards and then we would be going home so we wouldnt be getting anything to eat or drink and she had eaten lunch with a drink before we left home so she wasnt likely to be hungry or thirsty. but she just wouldnt accept this, she repeated im hunry im thirsty all round the shop, while we were choosing cards and then all the walk back. me and dp just ignored her after we had explained the answer was no but she just wouldnt stop whining on and on and on. in the end dp told her to stop whining as we didnt want to hear it anymore and then she shouted she didnt want to hear us either.
i used to enjoy going out with her but now i dread it as the whining is so annoying and people look at us like we shouldcontrol her, i just wish i knew how at the moment.
when we got in i asked her to be quiet as she passed her sister as she was asleep, so she squealed as she went past her, then i told her that was mean and she should be nice to her sister so she squealed again.
im fed up iof this behaviour.
sorry this is long but what do you do when they whine in shops?
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dd wants everything in shops and whines.
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familyfun · 18/06/2011 21:18
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