We are about to go on hols with my BIL and their 3 children under 5. We also have 2 children aged 2 and 3. All the children are very familiar with each other and see one another regularly. The last couple of holidays that we've had together have been exhausting for my husband and I as the children have fought over toys, have snatched things from one another then hit in retaliation etc etc.
We do not allow our children to behave like this so when they do snatch other childrens toys they are made to say sorry, give cuddles etc but my BIL and his wife do not see their childrens behaviour as being wrong. They turn a blind eye to it and even make a joke of it being 'survival of the fittest'! Thier children never make eye contact with us and it's upsetting. They must just see us as people who tell them off and sadly that's pretty much what we are.
What do I do? Please has anyone any experience of this sort of situation?
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Differing views on disciplining toddlers...HELP
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jinnie1970 · 31/05/2011 12:39
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