We've got DTB's who are 3 yr 4mths. On the whole they are good little fellows, but recently they have started refusing in any way to co-operate with washing/getting dressed/undressed. It is driving us to distraction. They wind each other up, think its all hilarious and just run rings round whoever it is helping them. We have tried everything- firm boundaries, shouting, patience etc etc. Tried sticker charts- they couldn't be less bothered, even though they both chose what they wanted as a reward but they don't care about earning the stickers. They don't find the naughty step a problem- they happily go and sit on it and then happily come back at the end, so that's no threat. They would happily go out in their pyjamas, so that's no help/threat either. What on earth is going to work with them? My dh and I absolutely hate losing our patience with them everyday as we are not shouty people, but we just get so frustrated by it. Any tips gratefully received.
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3yr olds refusing to help get dressed/undressed- its driving us CRAZY!!
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victoriagirl · 30/05/2011 10:42
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