I am writing on mumsnet for the first time, out of desperation. My gorgeous five year old boy can be the sweetest most loving little man in the world. However, often with little or no apparent trigger, he can also be very angry, physically agressive, and lately he has taken to screaming and shouting if he doesn't like something. So this evening for example, he refused to write any Christmas cards for his friends, in the end I gave up and said fine, if you don't want to do them its up to you, then I went off to finish bathing my older child. His response was to throw two piles of clothes/ironing around my bedroom and the landing. He also threw a stool, and scrunched up the two cards he had done for his teachers. Because I've run out of options of things to punish him with - time out never works, he won't stay put and/or hits me and kicks me - I ended up slapping him. I've never believed in smacking kids, I didn't ever smack my first child and yet, twice in the last two weeks I've resorted to this with my youngest. Both times I end up crying my eyes out after hes gone to bed. Just now I feel like the worst mum in the world. I don't want to be a mum that smacks. I've just reached a stage of despair that I can't seem to manage my son anymore and bring out the best in him. Any advice welcomed, PLEASE!
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