I'm starting to get really worried about my 2 year old son. At 2, he barely spoke a word but now at 2.5, he has around 50 words but he doesn't really use them to make conversation with anyone. He will say 'more','milk' hello' and 'bye' but the rest of his words he will just blurt out when he recognises something like 'frog' or certain shapes.
He goes to a nursery once a week but yesterday they held me back to tell me they can't get him to sit still, won't accept rules, is smacking the other children but cuddling them afterwards when he's told off and is generally not talking in a way they can understand.
Health visitor came to do 2 year check last week but he refused to do anything she asked him so she wrote 'uncooperative' on his form and left. In fact, he won't really do anything anybody asks him to. If you ask him for a hug, he will ignore you or run off laughing. He will often stand glued to the telly totally entranced. He also has terrible temper tantrums when he can't get his own way - so much, I dread taking him out in public sometimes. I told the health visitor that he does have imaginitive play skills because he pushes his cars and trains and makes car noises but now i'm not sure if that's what she meant when she asked.
I'm scaring myself reading about autism and other special needs but i'm too scared to mention it to anybody in real life incase they do say something might be wrong. This is my first child and would be grateful of opinions. Does it sound like he might need early intervention?
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I'm worried about my 2 year old
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birdynumnums · 07/12/2010 15:04
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