My 3 and half year old DS has hit the humerous stage and likes joking and making people laugh. However recently he has started saying things like "you're a dodo face" or something to the equivalent. I don't know where to draw the line at being able to say haha that's funny and that's quite unkind to say that.
I do feel that it is unacceptable and want it to stop and when I say to him that it is unkind to call people names he says "only joking". I don't know whether I am being over the top sensitive wise and should let him act this out or whether to be strict with him. He is a lovely little boy and very kind to others but has always liked making people smile and laugh and I think this is his new way. I haven't seen him do it to others but he does so it our house.
I was teased by my whole family and am actually quite fed up of it as I feel that you should just be nice to people rather than constantly teasing. When we are around my family e.g. his grandparents and uncle they tease him (as I was as a child) and I am sure that this has fuelled it.
Help would be appreciated. Thanks
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Teasing - when to allow and when to stop it?
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tiger66 · 18/11/2010 20:40
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