just wondered how other mumsts would have dealt with this next door but one nieghbour used too look after house we got too be friends 3 years ago when she moved in her 2 boys 1 of 10 1 of 6 plays with my ds who is 8 quie friendly we have fed them they play at our house and we go on dog walks with them ,but a while ago when we were away the little boy who lives next door voluntarily told me that thisboy 10 yo and 6 yo had been climbing our wall and had taken my bike and was riding it up and down the street i wasnt pleased so ispoke too his mum she dealt with accordingly then next time we were away we came back and found my bike as missin i went my nieghbours house to c if they knew of its wereabouts ,to which i was greeted by both sons saying they saw big boys in the back when he was on the park which we back onto we questioned as too whyhe never told his mum wot he saw and asked were they went we got no joy just said he didnt think, i was not too happy as i thought he was lieing his mum said she would question him again and would spk too there dad about it well we never heard anything for a while then me and dp went roundthe father answered the door and said that he had questioned him and he definitely didnt take the bike ,we were met with remarks of well its an old bike any way and so what if he was in garden any way that was the attitude well we went away and my last remark was i am sorry but i have a feeling that your son is lyin an left he wasnt too happy anyway 2 hours later i had a knock on the door it was his dad and his son with MY BIKE so dad apologied we ended up with the key back too our house and apologised made we gave him the benifit of the doubt slowly started too forgive him, he had been warned by his parents too stay out of our back i wouldnt mind but the gate was locked dosent that say enough and then he climbed over we now lock the bike in shed,Then yesterday i walked too get dd from nursery my gate was locked were my house is situated i can c in my garden from the road at the bottom we have a metal gate i spotted the two boys in my garden then watched them climb the wall back out as i calmly approached from the front they were walking from drive i calmly asked did he not get intotrouble weeks ago for going in my garden and climbing over he in a cheeky manner said"I AVENT BEEN IN YOUR GARDEN" i said "YES YOU HAVE I SAW YOU" he still denied i said " DONT LIE I SAW YOU ACROSS THE FIELD" then he cheekily prceeded too pick stones an started throwin one by one on the ground i i then lost it i angrily shouted at him told him too get off my property an then said not too bother calling at our house too play with my ds as he will not be made welcome as he was a liar and i cannot stand liers sent him packin my dp had just came in i explained what happened he went too seehis mother i was 2 angry anyway he was grounded for the day i will not allow my ds too play with him an feel he could be a bad influence if i did forgive him again i have had no apologie trouble is family next door have ds too who my ds plays with and today i felt sorry for him as he said its not fair i want to play with x but x is there and you dont want me too play but me and dp made it up my playing with him . do you think i over reacted or did the right thingwith the situation.
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