Hi
Having a difficult few weeks so though some feedback may help me. I am feeling very down (regretful/upset) about my lo's name. She is 3 now so obviously knows and says her name but I always regret not naming her my first choice (her middle name).
After she was born I suffered greatly with pnd and even though I knew her name wasnt quite right I didn't trust myself to change it in the first few weeks as worried that it was my emotions. I also thought if I changed it or started calling her by her middle name she wouldn't be "perfect" as I would already have failed in some way as a mother by getting her name wrong initially (as crazy as that sounds). Anyway, it has never felt right and I just feel so sad that I didn't just go with my gut instinct and change it after a few weeks. I struggled terribly with this for the first year and thought I was over it but keep meeting children with the name I love which makes me so sad. Her name was chosen by my oh and not really ever one I would have picked. Not sure what I am looking for but any thoughts/advice would be lovely to hear...
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daisy902 · 03/12/2014 13:30
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