Im pregnant with my first child (husbands 3rd child), i ve chosen a first name i really like and have decided my daughters middle name will be my mums middle name (after my mum and also because it goes well with the first name we have chosen).
Last night my brother in law was here and was confirming what we were calling our daughter, i told him what it was gong to be, he then replied "oh so it will be first name, middle name and then my mums name (as in his mother and my husbands mother). I then explained that it will just be the first name, then her middle name (which is my mothers middle name) and then her surname, and no other names.
He was abit shocked by this, maybe because he felt it wasnt fair just to put my mothers name in my daughters name. I now feel that maybe we should put the mother in laws name as a extra middle name (although im not sure i want my daughter to have a mouthful of a name).
I spoke to my husband about this and he said his mothers name isnt really nice, so he hadnt thought of putting it in.
Do you think im being unfair putting my mothers name in my daughters name but not the mother in laws name?
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Expectantmum2b · 06/06/2012 14:01
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