As far as I can see our lives are very similar but because I haven't suffered as many knocks as her my life and my problems/concerns are somewhat diminished.
We saw each other at the weekend for the first time in almost 2 years although we speak regularly on the phone. It ended badly and I am not sure what to do.
The worse thing I did was to ask her what she thought I got from our friendship? Not cool I know . This was after she thanked me for being there for her through her miscarriage and fertility problems (in an attempt to make me feel better after I said I was fed up with her negative take on me/my relationship with DH).
I was there for her while she sniped away at my choices/decisions regarding my family and made judgement after judgement about me. I was prepared to take it as I thought she was in a dark place but when this weekend contained more of the same I couldn't contain myself and lashed out. I said that I thought it was easy to thank a person but that to apologise takes humility and suggested that she might try apologising .
I have lost the 'thread' now and I'm not even sure what I'm asking.
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to object to my life being referred to as 'charmed' by my so called best friend?
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thedollyridesout · 05/11/2009 15:17
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