So have five weeks left until my due date, and the friend we've asked to be Godmother has been nagging suggesting that I have a baby shower. I don't particularly want a bit fuss as am feeling rather fat and tired! but agreed that a "Pre-Parent Meal" with DP and my closest friends might be really nice. So I arranged and booked it yesterday for two weeks time, and sent text / facebook invitations out to those we want there.
Slight back story - my secondary school friends buggered off when I got my scholarship to sixth form, then were very bitchy when I got ill (have ME), ruined my birthday party this year (I invited them to be friendly although they never invite me out - they sat there complaining there was no vodka and playing on my brothers Wii all day, didn't even wish me happy birthday), and called me an unsociable bitch when I said I wasn't going to go to see a comedian that I don't find funny - because its three days before my due date.
So anyway - I decided not to invite any of them to this meal, simply because I really can't be bothered. I logged onto facebook this morning just like normal, and one of this group has commented on the event post on my profile saying, "Hey hun, sorry but its X's birthday, don't think any of us are going to be able to make it". They weren't INVITED!!! I just think that is so rude and presumptuous. Am really quite annoyed!!
So am I being incredibly hormonal unreasonably, or is this just down right cheek?
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ErikaMaye · 10/10/2009 17:20
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