DS is 5. He has just been for a playdate at his friend's house. Due to friend's mum's working pattern (friend was often at childminder or afterschool club) this is the first playdate DS had had there (we've had friend over a few times).
After DS came home it emerged that he'd watched some of the last Indiana Jones film which is certificate 12. Now DS is addicted to the Indiana Jones game on the Wii, and when DH recently got this film out he'd begged to watch it. DH told him he was too young to watch a 12 film and having (DH) watched the film himself said he thought parts were too scary for DS and he certainly couldn't watch it.
Now I appreciate that friend's mum was unaware we'd told DS he couldn't watch this particular film (and I'm also fairly sure that DS didn't even realise this WAS the same film as we'd talked about it at home quite a while ago so he wasn't being disobedient deliberately) however I think if the situation was reversed I would not let a 5 year old watch a certificate 12 film (even if I deemed it suitable for my own child).
So AIBU to be a little upset that he was allowed to watch it? And if I'm not, how do I tackle this with the other mum without causing huge offence? (I don't know her desparetely well - really just the odd playground conversation).
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verywiseowl · 23/09/2009 19:56
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