OK, will try and say this without sounding ungrateful. My mother is great in many ways, a wonderful support to our family, she often looks after DD at short notice if I have to work and can't get childcare (I work freelance). However, she is always buying stuff for DD for no reason i.e. not birthday or xmas. She buys her a lot of clothes, which I'm fine with really although I worry that she spends too much of her own money on us but she came round at the weekend with a big box of duplo from Hamleys, which cost over 40 quid. I said it was really generous of her but that I'd rather we kept it for DD's 2nd birthday in just over 3 months time because it seemed to me to be too big to be just an 'occasional' present. She seemed quite disappointed and said DD's too young to be spoilt and she just enjoys giving her things and as she's looking after her on a couple of occasions this week she thought it would be fun for them to have something new to play with.
i don't want to be a complete killjoy it's just that DH and I both feel quite strongly that if she gets presents all the time, she'll stop appreciating them. But then again, it is my mother's money so I suppose she should be free to spend it as she likes.
So what's it to be? Am I being ungrateful and overly-strict?
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somethinganything · 14/09/2009 13:38
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