This weekend it was my MIL's birthday and myself, dh and two children spent a couple of days up there. This had been arranged for a while, and as my dh was away on business from Wednesday morning to Friday last week anyway, it made more sense for him to make his way to his mum's on Friday from the business venue, while myself and the two dc's travelled up by train, arriving on Saturday.
The journey was absolutely fine btw, I'm used to travelling by train, but it did involve two fairly long train journeys plus crossing London, and then a taxi from the station to my in-law's house, getting there took most of the day.
As we were nearing the end of the second train journey I texted dh and told him roughly what time we'd be at his mum's. He texted back "Ok then, hope journey was fine". Bearing in mind he was only in town, I just assumed he'd arrive back at his mum's at about the same time as us, the children were disappointed when there was no sign of him. My MIL said she'd hoped he'd be there to meet us after not having seen us for most of the week, and texted him to say we were there. She got an "Ok" text back and he finally wandered in a couple of hours later, said "Hi" to the kids and me, then switched on teletext to catch up with the football scores!
I told him afterwards I wasn't happy and the kids assumed their dad would be waiting to meet them after a long journey! He said he hadn't given it a thought, he knew we were on our way and as there hadn't been any problems with the journey/children, he didn't see the need to rush back from town!
AIBU to expect a bit more from him?
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to be a bit miffed at my "non-welcome" from dh?
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onthepier · 13/09/2009 19:52
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