XP has the boys every other weekend. When I collected them last week he told me that his JSA had been stopped. According to him they had stopped it because he had been sacked for gross misconduct. Now I'm not entirely sure of the way that they decide if you are entitled to JSA, but he was sacked in December, so I find it hard to believe that it's taken them over 8 months to realise that they have wrongly awarded him JSA. Now I know that JSA can be stopped if they don't think you're making an effort to look for work (which wouldn't surprise me with him tbh), but this isn't the reason he has given me. Also surely they can't leave you without a single penny to buy food, gas, electric, water etc?
He said he probably wouldn't be able to have the boys this weekend as he didn't expect it to be sorted by then.
It's not the 1st time that he's used his benefits 'not arriving' to get out of having the boys for an entire weekend or at all.
Anyway I did a bit of digging and I have a very strong feeling that he is going to a rave on Saturday. Emailed him asking what was happening, and he replied saying 'arseholes at the government are twats' as apparently they have now stopped his HB.
So now the boys won't see him for a month and I'm the one who keeps being accused of pushing them away from him.
So AIBU to think he's talking utter bollocks?
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to think xp is lying about his benefits being stopped so that he can go to a rave instead of having his sons for the weekend?
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chim000 · 27/08/2009 09:39
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