Today I was in M and S with my two autistic sons. 4 year old in his major buggy, and his high functioning brother, my 6 year old. 6 year old was upset by someone bumping into him, he can not tolerate unexpected touching, and I was trying to distract him and calm him away from a pending meltdown. While this was going on, he decided to hide in a clothes rail, I was standing next to him. A sales assistant came and physically pushed him out of the clothes rail, even though she could see me standing there, trying to calm him down and coax him out. I was shocked and asked her not to manhandle him since he was autistic and can not tolerate even the lightest of unexpected touches. He then lashed out and she held his arm and forcefully moved him. He was not harming anyone, or damaging anything, until that moment. He then ran around the store in a state of angst, with me at 36 weeks pregnant, with my 4 year old ds in major buggy in not very hot persuit. Luckily dh arrived in the nick of time.
Dh was understandably very angry. I was just exhausted, and quite frankly not amused that I did not go into labour with all the running about, but that is another topic. My 6 year old is now again refusing to leave the house.
I have written a letter of complaint to my local M and S.
I am so angry at the stupid shop assistant, especially after I explained to her to not touch my son, and the reason for it.
Dh says she assaulted ds.
I am just so angry.
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Deeeja · 26/08/2009 02:11
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