My Mum has a bit of a thing about making any event more about her. My wedding day revolved around what she wanted, what she was wearing etc.
Today she phoned to tell me she has invited her friend to my graduation dinner . I know the friend only vaguely and have only met her a few times, DH doesn't know her at all.
This friend offered to drive my mum to the venue so mum said to her that she should hang about and then come for dinner with us afterwards.
When mum told me this I was a bit stunned, I mean its not like she had the idea then came to me to ask if it would be ok to ask this woman, she just did it.
I asked mum if she was joking and she said no. I asked her whose graduation this is and there was silence. Mum said she thought I wouldn't mind! I told her that if it was a friend I had known all my life and that knew me then it would be different but this is a woman I don't know.
There will be Mum, DH and I for dinner and now this woman too. I could say no (I've told her to give me time to think) but then I'll be bad guy, Mums solution was to make other arrangements for the friend while we eat! I have visions of the woman sitting in the car outside the restaurant with us waving out at her!
I can't believe Mum invited this person. I know its not the ceremony but I've worked hard to get to this point and want to enjoy the day with my close family. I don't want to sit at dinner trying to make small talk with the friend or worse have the pair of them cackling at the end of the table as if neither DH nor I are there.
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Rossco · 20/08/2009 15:55
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