I know I am NBU but I'm going to vent anyway.
Sister is nearly 21 and is living with her boyfriend who is a couple of years older. They have one DD who is nearly 3 and has SN (inc. physical). I have lost count of the amount of times I have had a text fom her about her bf being a twat. He works full time, she works on weekends and claims disability for her DD and child benefit. He pays the rent late every month, they nearly ended up in court over unpaid council tax, bills go unpaid etc. He expects her to pay everything out of what she earns, while all his money after (late) rent gets pissed away on himself - NB he is now earning about £20k so no excuse! Every month she ends up having to give him some cash out of the disability for his bus fares etc. as he has none left. His mobile's been cut off. He buys himself expensive gear. He regularly pops out after work for 'a' drink, coming home in the early hours. The irony? He's training to be an accountant!
This evening she rang me in tears as he's buggered off out AGAIN, leaving her at home with no food in the house. She's having cereal for dinner. After working all morning and then looking after her DD all afternoon, and expecting him to come home so she could go out to Tesco.
I asked her why on Earth she hasn't thrown him out - I'd have done so a long time ago, and her answer is that she doesn't want to be on her own with a disabled child to look after .
I feel so furious that he's treating my baby sister like this, and so sad that she doesn't even list love as a reason for letting him stay.
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In thinking my sister's boyfriend is a complete and utter a$%£hole?
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babyignoramus · 04/08/2009 18:43
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