I posted a thread last week about my inlaws not coming to our ds' birthday party,well brief history for those who cant be bothered to find that post & read it all,
Ds was having his bday party at the weekend,sil 2 dd's were both invited but sil only accepted invitation for 1 of them & after me asking who was coming to the party inlaws told me the youngest dd wasnt going & they would be looking after her.So that meant they wouldnt be going to his party.
Well anyway party was yesterday,& 2 hrs before party started sil rung dh & told him eldest dd wouldnt be coming to the party after all as she was ill.
Fair enough, children do get ill quickly, so we automatically assumed that the gp's would be coming now as they were not needed to sit for sil's other dd.
So our ds had a fantastic party, but no, his gp's never turned up, no phone call to say have a nice party, & a few people asked me where they were.
They have absolutely favoured sils dd's from the moment of finding out sil was preg.Yesterday was the straw that broke the camels back so to speak.I have kept quiet for yrs now & i do need to say something to let them about how upset we all where that they couldnt have made the effort for ds.
Sil's eldest dd had her bday party 2 weeks ago & they both went to that.
So what can i say without lowering myself, i was going to say something like 'we were disappointed that you never came to the party'. Is that enough?
I need some advice please, & thankyou for reading.
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PM73 · 03/08/2009 08:06
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