Teaching a child to ride today, mother tends to stand next to the indoor school and tell child what to do during the lesson whilst I'm teaching. This is frustrating as advice is not always correct and also I believe intimidates child who lacks confidence in lessons. (note, I am not child's usual teacher although I have taught child in the past. Mother does this with all teachers though)
I asked child if she would like to canter... mother immediately said "yes, you should, go on". I had to step in at this point I politely said
"I need xxx to say they want to canter mum as pony has an unusual saddle on today and child may not feel secure enough to canter on this occasion". Mum looked very angry by this so in an attempt to clear the air I said to her with a smile
"I do feel rude calling you 'MUM' I'm sorry, I don't know you real name". She told me her name and i thanked her but...
she then turned away and muttered 'fucking bitch' under her breath - loud enough for someone leading another child to hear however.
I mentioned this to a fellow member of staff who just shrugged and said 'oh xxx, yeah, she's always like that - you're not the first person to get in her bad books"
But I'm really rather upset about it - I was making a real effort with her child to increase confidence (which was working)... plus I don't think it is appropriate to speak like this when there are other parents/riders/staff/leaders around. I want to say something to my boss as I don't think this woman should be allowed to be unpleasant like this just because 'oh she's always been difficult'.
but dont' want to be hormonal over re-active pregnant lady either!!!
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to want to complain to my boss about a parent calling me a f*****ing b***ch
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Southwestwhippet · 22/07/2009 19:57
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