He is overweight atm. Bigger than he has ever been. He drinks quite a bit and has d started smoking again. He goes to the gym once or twice a week but it's mainly a social occasion and he hates going without a friend. And he rarely does any CV work just body building.
I suspect his BMI is probably on the higher side of normal but they way he is going it is only going to get worse. His dad was big too and died quite young from cancer but he also had a heart condition. He knows he needs to give up the fags but that is something only he can do. He has cut back on the beer quite a bit recently so I am not too worried about that. He refused to come running with me and he dislikes walking unless it can't be avoided.
In order to encourage him to lose some weight I agreed to diet with him. I don't really need to lose weight but it wouldn't do any harm, but the main reason was to encourage him.
But every time we meet up with friends they say something along the lines of 'Oh why are you on a diet. You don't need to lose weight.' Problem is he is very muscular across the chest and shoulders so he doesnt look too bad dressed. I sometimes feel like pulling up his shirt and saying "Really? Well look at that gut then!" But that would be unkind and probably unwifely
So now he's stopped dieting. Refuses to countenance it anymore.
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OrmIrian · 13/06/2009 13:22
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