I know this is a piece of silliness, but I sometimes hate the playground and the effort it takes to be sociable with people who always seem happy to be exclusive and frankly a bit rude to others.
My son moved schools in Year 1. I am quite a chatty, sociable type and I made an effort to get to know a few mums, just as I did in DS's last school. I regularly have people round for coffee and have even organised evenings out.
What gets my goat is that whereas I always try and be inclusive - I always try and extend invites and would never deliberately leave anyone out - others seem quite happy to be exclusive even if it means being rude to someone standing right in front of them. I don't mean me necessarily. I work and i can't always fit in with people's coffee get togethers anyway, but I regularly see otherwise perfectly nice women exclude others in various and often very obvious ways and it feels like high school.
I just can't get my head around it but it was the same at my last school. What is it about the playground environment that makes normal women act like this?
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debs40 · 12/06/2009 18:13
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