me and my bf have his daughter over at the weekends sometimes one night sometimes both but at least one night a weekend and i dread if its the 2 nights i have a 7 yr old boy and he has bunk beds in his room for the fact of i have a kid he has a kid they both need to share at weekends until we get a new house which will be soon, dsd sleeps with her mum at home she's 4 personally i dont think this is right but... my opinion eh, she sleeps with her mum either on the couch getting a cuddle til dsd's mum goes to bed too cradled in bed till shes asleep or very very seldom she will fall asleep watching a dvd when we get her at the weekend its irritating we try for the dvd tactic in OUR bed which is begining to annoy me because it seems to keep her up later past 9pm usually and then results in my bf having to go up into our bed and lay with her till she falls asleep which can take up to 45 mins maybe im being selfish but its our weekend too! she point blank refuses to even try to sleep in the bunk bed a few times shes even slept on the couch on his tummy, when i go up into bed i put her in the bunk bed but around 2 3am shes back in beside us either screaming at the top of her voice daddy wakening me bf and ds up or silently wandering in. im aware that its not her fault i know that its because that what happens in her house but im 6 months pregnant im going into the bunkbed at 3am some nights because i need room to breathe i just keep thinking when does it end what happens when the baby comes will i be sleeping in the nursery with the baby? i spent years of telling my son no u cant sleep in my bed you need to sleep in your bed and whenever i suggest something or say you really need to talk to dsd's mum i get a mouthful of "ive tried and i only get her once a week" i need some advice its getting to the stage that im not bringing it up anymore to save the arguments and im getting moaned at if i go into the bunkbed at night so then i lay awake squished i need sleep and i end up using during the week to get over late weekends of no sleep rather than the other way about its like i can talk to him about almost anything else but this if she was my daughter it'd be so much easier!
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