DH and I scrimped and scraped for years to be able to afford our first home together, a modest 2 up 2 down. Previously we've been renting but now that I have dd really wanted to try and get our foot on the ladder. After 3 years of saving, going without holidays, new clothes etc we finally got a deposit together to buy our little house. The day we moved in was a very happy one, and I dreamt of my little family living and growing in the house for many years to come (cant have any more children so needing more bedrooms will never be an option).
However, the dream has turned into a bit of a nightmare and friends and family are telling me its my own fault. The problem lies with the thiness of our walls. We can literally hear everything. One lot of neighbours have 4 children who make a lot of noise. I dont mind so much during the day but its at night it causes problems. DH and I both work long hours so we can pay our mortgage and because of the noise from our neighbours we never get a good nights sleep,making it difficult to do our jobs properly. Last time we slept well was when we stayed at a friends 2 months ago. Next doors children age from about 10 to 16 and they are up all hours, dont go to bed til 12 and then wake us up around 5. DD is still quite small so not yet having an impact on her but I worry it will soon. The parents of the children dont work so even on a rare day off the noise is constant, loud blaring TV, music, shouting etc. They never go out at weekends and never take a holiday so we never get a break. I do expect some noise, it is a terraced house after all, but its the ongoing constant noise at night that I cant bear. The family are very friendly and I have asked if they can try and keep it down after 11 but the noise just continues. Friends tell me I should expect this because its a terraced house, but when I moved in I had no idea that a family of 6 would be living in a 2 bedroom house. Its so depressing never getting a decent nights sleep. Neighbours tell me that my house has been bought and sold about 5 times in the past 10 years because people cant cope living next door to this family. AIBU in expecting to get some form of sleep in my house even though its a terrace?
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to expect to be able to get any sleep in a terraced house especially when my neighbour has 4 children
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sosadandtired · 23/12/2008 11:36
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