my grandad died last week.
hed been ill for quite some time and it wasnt a surprise but still .
2 well 3 members of my family i feel are completely out of order IMO.
my mum who never really got on with my grandad,(he was her stepdad),and last year said that his feeding tube should be pulled and he be "allowed to die".
she has referred to him as "the living dead".
i phoned her the other day to say he would be ready for viewing a couple of days before the funeral and she said "thats because he will be in an icebox and they will need to defrost him".
one of my sisters has fell out with me and my other sister because she has abandoned her teenage daughter at my mums house (she is 16) and has moved away with friends and hardly bothers with her,me and my sister have told her what we thought,(this was weeks ago before he died) and now she says she isnt going to travel in the funeral car but is going to make her own way there,which will really upset my uncle who has arranged the funeral.
my neice has been lying and taking money off my mum pleading poverty and then asking me to use my card to pay for things and she,ll give me the cash.i dont know if i should tell my mum or keep out of it,i havent let her use my card btw,ive told her there isnt any money in the bank for the amount that she needs.
im feeling very very upset and stressed and unsure how to deal with it all.
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to think that certain members of my family are completely out of order?
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sadandshocked · 04/11/2008 14:36
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