this is a bit complicated. DS, 6, was in bother at school last week for some inappropriate behaviour with another little boy involving putting their hands down the back of each others trousers while in a lesson .
the other boy has a bit if a history which we know about as he was involved in some inappropriate behaviour with more than one boy last year, one of whom was a friend's son.
We are going to see the head teacher about this on Monday, however a long chat with DS about it all and he seems to be taking on board the fact that this behaviour was innapropriate and understands about privacy etc.
Tonight is the school disco and given that he has seemed suitably humbled about it and has given the other boy a wide berth, we were prepared to let him go to the disco.
When DH picked him up from school just now, his teacher wanted a word. He and a few other boys were dropping their shorts during their PE lesson. He was the only one who was caught at it according to him and his defence was that one of his friends (not the boy from last week) "told him to do it", which of course the other bot denies.
Our instinct is to punish him by not letting him go to the disco, and given what went on last week we are a bit concerned about the way his behaviour is going.
I don't think the two incidents are related, but it is scaring the bejesus out of me to think that he is behaving like this. Is this just boyish silliness or a cause for concern? and are we right in denying him the disco or being a bit harsh?
I feel like I can't trust my own parenting abilities any more
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to not allow DS to go to the school disco this evening?
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LackaDAISYcal · 03/10/2008 15:57
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