It's DD's birthday and she is having a small organised 'shop-bought' party tomorrow with 5 classmates tomorrow.
Then on Sunday a big shin-dig at ours with close friends and family .
And I am dreading the whole weekend because I will have family staying at our house. With DN's who have no routine and go to sleep about 11.30 where they drop, where as my too are so into routine an hour passed bedtime and they are taking themselves to bed.
Also DD has swimming first thing on Sunday, meaning she has to be up at 7.30 to get breafast before 8 - so she is not eating for an hour before swimming. So I dont want a late disturbed night for her
DH's family all sleep late, meaning restricted access to parts of my house where party and birthday stuff has had to be stored and hidden. And they take 4 hours to get themselves organised for a trip to the shops - and I am not over exaggerating.
SIL wants to have lunch out and do a bit of shopping on Sunday and I have told her be my guest as it gets them out from under my feet. They have asked DD to go, but she wants to stay with me and help get ready by decorating and filling her pinata . She has chosen her fav music and asked we play loud as we work as it will help us get in the arty mood - bless. But by the time my DN's wake its about 11am. The party is at 2, there is no point.
I have furniture to shift and baking to do and I want to enjoy DD's day with her and everyone else. But this rabble are just going to make the whole weekend stressful and ruin everything!
To make it worse BIL phoned DH and said 'we all have colds should we still come' to which DH said 'up to you'. Where as I would have grabbed the oppertunity and said I would rather not take the risk now DD is back at school.
I am so wound up just thinkning of it
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Lowfat · 26/09/2008 17:52
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