Before everyone starts saying im being far too sensitive, I CANT HELP THE WAY I FEEL!!! I could just scream and cry as I get so frustrated and annoyed at her.
Before she found out we were expecting I had been with dh for 10 years. MIL and I got on brillantly, she treats me justs like her other daughter (which i think could be the problem).
It all started when she firstly wanted to be involved with the naming of our baby. And every name we mentioned she disliked and made it quite clear. She then started saying when the baby was born I had to share, 50 - 50!! I used to just laugh this off.
I breastfed baby for 4 months, MIL used to look over my shoulder when I was feeding, so I started going into a bedroom if they were at ours or I was at theirs but she would come in and watch, she would even lean down and kiss babys head whilst I was feeding!!!!!!!!!
Whilst I was on maternity leave she came round every single day at 9am which used to drive me mad!!
Now baby is 8 months old and ive just gone back to work. My mother has dd 1 day and MIL has her for 4 days, I know how lucky we are to have free child care and someone who loves her just as much as we do looking after her but I can help but feel like this. She keeps saying I wish DD could live here premantly, I dont want to go on a 2 week holiday I think we should take dd with us!! Wheres my baby?? Everytime she phones, the 1st thing she says is how is she?? Not Hello!!!
Oh i could just go on and on and on...................................................
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Mashingmummy · 22/09/2008 22:07
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