Right- just to warn you I'm not impressed as I have been ill for days and have had to watch my house collapse around my ears as DH 'looks after the kids' ha.
Okay, have been in bed with nasty throat infection since Sat and after yet another miserable night and a bout of vomiting this morning, I got DH to arrange for GP to do a home visit so that I can get antibiotics. Having not eaten since Sunday I genuinely did not feel that I could make the mile walk in the rain with or without DC. When she got here, I was chastised for breaking with their policy as they don't do house calls- ??? she said from the end of my bed??? and then went on to tell me it was a severe infection but I was really lucky not to have the mutated boil/pustule variety which she would have to lance (I however, don't feel very lucky and suspect that she would have loved to lance my pustules- what a gross word- will stop using it immediately).
I was then given a lecture on the woes of foreign travel (I just came back from 2 very pleasant weeks in Spain and believe that I may have picked up this nasty condition on the flight) and how in some way my devil-may-care- approach to jetting round the world (to repeat, I went to SPAIN FFS) brought this on myself.
Now this GP and I have a bit of a history. I have been in her company at several functions and she has always been perfectly pleasant to the extent that she and her DH made a beeline for DH and I at the most recent. She is about 15 yr older than me and she decided to go back to work when her little ones were small. She has told me on several occasions that I should go back to work as I must be bored being a SAHM.
This came to a head when I went to see her recently for a chest infection (have not been a well woman this year) and she ran some tests. Fortunately they all came back clear, and she then told me that there was nothing wrong with me that going back to work wouldn't sort out- as obviously I am some sort of attention seeking loser who goes to the Doctors with all these imaginary illnesses. [hmmm]
When I told her she was out of order she then started saying that I just need a break from my kids (don't we all?) as I am obviously not coping with them (I am pretty much a single parent during the week) or I wouldn't have all these ailments. I admit that i have been done in this year but I'm fed up with this woman thinking she can cross professional boundaries about my choices. AIBU?
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shootfromthehip · 16/09/2008 18:05
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