ill keep this short, im 32 not seen my dad for 10 yrs, im one of three my sil came to my home 2 weeks ago to say that he was near death and that we all should say our goodbyes so i went i felf nothing for him but went out of guilt. he was a very abusive husband and father and ive always been scared of him. when my mum left him it was just the best thing we had begged her for yrs to leave him,he also has mentel health problems, i didnt want to see him alive i wanted to shout at him when he was gone but he survived. ive seen him machines keeping him alive but stable when i saw him this over whelming felling of love came over me and it hit me really hard.i came home and cryed im so bloody confused right now i thought i had dealt with these issus lond ago and has come back to give me my nightmares again. not seen him for about 6 days now not sure if i should my sister and brother go everyday my other sister wants nothing to do with him, what would you do? there is alot more to this story but i havent thhe right to tell. please need advice
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heartmummy · 11/09/2008 23:04
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