Sil and her two boys and us and our two go every year to a festival in the second week of August - next week. Her boys are 13 and 11, my dd is 12 and my ds is 7. Other families come and go every year, but we are always there and our children are the only ones similar in age. The cousins don't see each other very often, and they all really look forward to it - emails and texts start looming backwards and forwards from about February planning what they are going to do.
I've just had an email from sil to say that she's booked spaces for a couple of friends of her dss - "hope that's OK"
I'm cross because it's always been a week for the cousins to spend time together, and the whole dynamic will change with two extra people my dcs don't know. And I'm cross because if I had known, I could have organized for my two to bring friends too - then the balance would have been better and the could "run as a pack". I'm worried that it will now be the 4 bigger boys doing stuff with dd left out because she's the only girl and ds left out because he's littler. His cousins have always looked out for him - I don't expect two boys who've never met him before to do the same!
Tell me I'm being precious and silly and it'll be fine, and that sil isn't being even remotely thoughtless......
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Probably, but I am cross with SIL and need to get it out of my system
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seeker · 06/08/2008 08:18
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