...and probably for the forseeable future?
Quick explanation. DS1 and DH went away for the weekend. I thought it would be a nice relaxing weekend for myself and the 2 little ones...not a hope. On Friday evening I recieve and e-mail from my older brother asking if he can come and stay this week. In the same e-mail he is moaning about my parents and my sister.
On Saturday my dad calls. Now I am a little soft with my dad as he had a major cardiac arrest last year and nearly died. But he was moaning about my mum, my older brother who lives there and about not seeing my sister and her boys. Then on Staurday night my sister calls moaning about parents and older brother and to top it all my younger brother called on Sunday morning moaning about older brother
Are you still with me?
Now, younger brother, I actually didn't mind calling as he was concerned. He had our older brother over on Saturday night as he felt he needed to get out. He says that our older brother downed a lot of alcohol in just an hour and spent the rest of the evening swearing etc. He also told my younger brothers girlfriend a lot of very personal things...things which my younger brother should only be telling her if he chooses to.
I have had enough. It may sound very snobbish, but we do not go around swearing all of the time here. I have decided that I cannot allow my brother to come and stay because there is no way he will be able to curb the swearing...and plus I simply can't cope with my family atm...well most of the time tbh. I live 2 hours away for a reason!!
I have just sent him a message saying that one of the boys is ill so I can't have him here atm. I feel guilty, but I can't do it!!
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Squirdle · 28/07/2008 16:53
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