DD (18 in Sep) has been with BF for 10 month, very good relationship, obviously much of that in lockdown. I know they have had sex pre march and was fine with it, very mature, discussions etc. She has met BF for a socially distanced walk once but nothing more.
Following the 'bubble' announcement last week she has now told me most of her friends are allowed to have their BF in their house and are seeing them normally, ie. close, and their parents are ok with this.
I am very much sticking to the rules and have throughout. AIBU to still say she can't have him in the house? I feel a bit mean and dont want to damage their relationship. On the news yesterday one of the science men said the July 4 guidelines could be in place til next spring which could potentially kill the relationship as even those guidelines don't allow for intimacy between 2 multi people households.
I'm really torn. Surely if we allow him in, we all social distance, she showers and washes bedding, wipes surfaces etc the risks are minimal? I'm really torn between sticking to the rules or helping them still feel connected.
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tactum · 24/06/2020 10:13
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