Hi everyone, just wanting to rant I guess but also ask if I'm overreacting haha! I am 22 and 24 weeks pregnant, none of my close friends are even thinking about having kids therefore know nothing about pregnancy or babies! I have one friend who I know means well but has said some really judgemental and upsetting things including:
- Asked me if i'm breastfeeding and said she knows someone who is allergic to milk because they weren't breastfed (then a few weeks later sent me a fact sheet on breast feeding and said "if I CAN it would be good for the baby)
- Said to me that she hopes i'm not resting on my stomach (when I said I rolled over in the bath to get some kicks out of my baby!).
- Has said when she babysits to "catch them at mother and baby yoga"
- Asked if i'm learning to change nappies
- When booking an event for the month of my due date saying "isn't that close to your due date????" as if i didn't know when i'm meant to be having my own child!
I am aware I will be a young mum but every day of my life I spend researching and thinking about my baby and I'm finding it sooo hurtful that a close friend is saying such judgemental and rude things thinking she knows better when her opinions are based on absolutely nothing!!! what on earth do I do because she does mean well but it's upsetting me so much some times!