On Wednesday I messaged a friend/mentor to ask if I could phone them this week and gave them a brief description of what I needed to talk about. They said it was no problem and we could chat on Friday.
Friday came and I hadn’t heard anything more, usually they contact me on the day to ask if a certain time suits me. I then contacted them that evening and it transpired that they’d had a busy day and had forgotten, which is no problem, though I had been waiting all day for the message/phone call.
On Saturday morning they asked me if I was free on Saturday, I said yes but acknowledged that it was Saturday - we met through a previous job and Saturday is their day off so I didn’t want to demand that they give me some of their day off unless they were happy to. They didn’t reply to my message, even though they were the one to initiate and ask me if Saturday suited me! They haven’t even read it yet.
I would really like to have this conversation and I’ve now spent two days waiting to hear when suits my friend to have it. I know nobody’s perfect but AIBU to feel a little bit annoyed?
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To feel a bit like my time has been disrespected
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flatpillow · 31/05/2020 12:40
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