DD1 is in year 11. She attends the best performing state school in the local area. However, she has never seemed to get a lot of homework throughout KS3 and the first part of KS4, maybe a couple of hours a week max.
I have recently met with the Head of Curriculum and Learning and she has been pretty casual about the GCSE results, saying that they only need a bunch of 4s to qualify for their 6th form and that my DD will easily get that.
I agree, she will. But I don't want her to get a fist full of 4s and have to be restricted to applying to her current school sixth form. She is a bright kid, but has fallen into a toxic friendship group that is far from aspirational in terms of academics. She has spent much of her secondary education so far trying to intervene in child protection issues surrounding self harm and suicidal ideation in order to "save" a number of her troubled friends.
I want her to get away from her current school and have the chance to go where her dad teaches, which is much more academic and inspirational. I want her to be free of these friendships that are simply wearing her out and dragging her down. She has said she would like to go there too, but doesn't understand the sacrifices she will need to make in terms of time in order to get there ( It's one of the top grammar schools in the UK, and a state school to boot).
Given that she is in mostly top sets in year 11, I would expect her to be studying for 2 hours a night minimum, but this has met with tears and masses of resistance.
What do you think is a reasonable amount of independent study per week for a bright year 11 with a desire to get a fistful of 7s and 8s? AIBU asking for one hour a night or should I be helping her to aim for more time of independent study, given that school seems incapable of giving much homework. This is a separate matter that I need to take up with them, I know. But in the meantime, what do you think is acceptable study time?
Thanks in advance.
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jillowarriorqueen · 06/09/2019 22:35
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