Dh hates the neighbour across the road from us. Parking is a real problem down our road; we have no drive and 2 cars as we both work out of town, although we're hoping to get rid of 1 soon as I have new job very near home.
Man across road has very big house and a driveway for 2 cars. He also has 6 domestic cars (jags and rovers) and a big can for work !!! I kid you not. He is very particular about parking his cars next to his house as he likes to keep an eye on them and they are obviously his 'babies'. We made the mistake of parking in one of 'his' spaces years ago and he was straight across to ask us to move so he could park his car there, although I have to say he was very polite about it.
Dh has developed a hatred of this man, mostly because he thinks it's obscene to own and run this many gas-guzzling cars, and dh also hates this bloke's obsession with the parking . I think as long as we can park near to our house, then this man's business is his own. Twice now recently, dh has made a comment to the man or his wife, unnecessarily mentioning the amount of cars they have. The other day, dh noticed the man;s car was parked outside our house although one of the spaces in his drive was empty. Both our cars were parked ok so it really was none of dh's business, but he said 'any chance you can park in yoru own drive instead of outside my house?' to which the man replied 'when you pay my road tax you can tell me where to park' and was quite aggressive.
My opinion is that dh has overstepped the mark and deserved to be spoken to like that as he was making a judgement on the man's lifestyle and winding him up. Dh has reluctantly agreed I'm right, and I also don't want any ill-feeling amongst neighbours - life's hard enough without hassle from neighbours isn't it? I now want dh to go over and apologise for making those comments and admitting it was none of his business, no matter what we think of the man and his cars!
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Moomin · 23/07/2007 10:20
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