On a scale of 1-10 how mad should I be about this....

Fireplace1 · 2019-04-24 15:58:03

Sister set up a group chat with me, siblings, parents, etc about a big BBQ she was having as she wanted to find a date we could all do before finalising the date. We all listed the dates we could do, there were a number of dates everyone could do and one date I couldn't. She chose that date... I pointed out there were a lot of dates we could all do and she came back and said she wasn't sure I'd feel comfortable at the event as she was also inviting a lot of her clients, I phoned her to ask what this was supposed to mean. Sister is a personal trainer, I am overweight (size 16). Cut a long story short she started by saying everyone going was really slim and cared about their weight (my anger rose to about 5/10 here), then she proceeded to suggest it looked bad on her as a personal trainer if she had a 'fat' sister (anger soared to 10/10 at this oint!).... I hung up the phone. I have never hung up the phone on her before. I am fuming!!!! What do I say to her?

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