My H (won't call him DH today as he's not very 'dear' to me this morning) goes out every month or so and gets completely pissed and will go from is it ok to go for a beer after work to rolling in at 3-4am. We have a 5 month old baby so yet again last night I'm waiting up for him to get in and then he couldn't find where we lived because of being so pissed (we've recently moved to a new house.) most of the time he is a fantastic husband and father but I find this behaviour completely unacceptable. Go out by all means but he gets out of control and then I don't hear from him for hours until he rolls in paralytic. This is the only cause of upset in our marriage, of course we bicker and have the odd row but I lose my shit when he does this and don't think I'm being unreasonable. What if something happened to the baby while he's out getting pissed? Or I needed him at home for whatever reason? He says sorry every time of course and he didn't intend to get that drunk but actions speaker louder then words so why keep doing it? I feel like I'm banging my head against a brick wall and he says I'm overreacting and that he's a good husband most of the time. Surely it should be all of the time??
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