My daughter was born by c section 2 weeks today, the first week felt like a breeze. I was up and walking around within 12 hours bleeding stopped after 36 hours and I honestly felt amazing for the first week. Since the stitches dissolved I've been in agony with a stabbing burning pain at one end of my incision site.
My brother lives with me as well as having a 12 and 9 year old dc to help out. My mum sister and dad all live in the same village just 5 minutes away. Yet since the day I got home from hospital (3 days after section) I've been expected to just carry on as normal. My brother works 4 on 4 off yet spends his days off on his phone or tablet oblivious to everything around him. I have seen my mum once and no one else has been to see if I need any help.
This morning my 12 year old skived of school, he managed to drop a heavy coffee table on my foot while I was on my hands and knees scrubbing the floor. I was up most of the night either with the baby or with my 3 year old who has an ear infection. I have now just felt a tear at my incision site after lifting a heavy bin liner in the outside bin and picking up a heavy wash basket of wet washing. I asked my brother to sort the shed on his days off ready for my sons new bike that I've got him for his birthday and to mow the grass, neither got done. So now on top of looking after 2 toddlers, a preemie baby and sorting the house I have to do these too.
Is it too much to ask for a bit of support and help while I am trying to recover from surgery?
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Exhaustedmummy1811 · 25/03/2019 12:08
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