Since I've had my children, I've begun to realise things about my parents and my upbringing that I'm finding increasingly hard to deal with.
Long story short, it seems that my DB was heavily favoured by our parents. I did pick up on this in my early teens, raised it, got shot down by my parents who assured me they love just the same, I then went off the rails drinking, self-harming and shagging around. Much therapy has made me realise I was really lacking in self confidence and didn't really like myself, but I'm getting there now.
Every now and then something happens and it triggers a little domino effect in my brain and I figure out something else from my childhood that suddenly makes other things fall in to place.
Now, I've just had another little realisation.
When my DC1 turned 1, my parents gave him a little wooden play box that I'd suggested he might like.
When DB and DSIL's child turned 1 they were given an expensive item, easily x10 the cost of my child's gift.
Today my DC2 turned 1 and I got a text message, not even a card.
(I've mentioned the price of the gifts because that's the easiest way to express the difference, not because I'm a money grabber, I promise. My parents, my DH and I and DB and DSIL are all reasonably comfortable, so it isn't about that.)
AIBU and ridiculous that I'm so fucking hurt by this? I want to cry, I am so annoyed at how pathetic I feel about this!
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Didntwanttochangemyname · 21/03/2019 20:05
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