Dp sister, (lets say Anne) asked her Dp (bob) if she could borrow £3000 due to Blocking her own account and needs £3000 to pay For part of her kitchen installation, doesn't have the money, Tradesmen wont start, delay it another 6 weeks.
Anne and Bob have their own properties.
Anne, has asked bob for £3000 to borrow for maximum of 5 days and would be transferred immediately, once money available.
Bob hasn't got the money personally but has in business savings, where bob brother Dylan always goes into borrowing whenever and doesn't ask bob, they both own 50/50 of family business.
Anne and Bob been together 2.5 years, and Anne always lends Bob Money. Bob refuses to even ask his brother, knowing Anne has money and will pay it back.
DP feels Bob should at least His brother Dylan, and if answer no then fine, But least that would show some sort support, as Anne is always helping bob out, but Bob wont do this, feels Anne is intimidating him for money.
Anne is peeved off, but kinda gets Bob hates asking Dylan for anything, but feels Dylan does this often without bob knowledge,
so cant see why Bob just cant ask Dylan to borrow £3000 for 5 days.
and Anne is more than willing to show Dylan her bank details to prove this would be paid back within 5 days.
Anne is buggered, doesn't feel supported by Bob. Bob just keeps going on how he hasn't got the money, knowing he has Savings shared with Dylan.
AIBU that Bob could at least ask his brother Dylan whether he could use Savings (plenty of it) to help Anne out, who Dylan knows very well?
Maybe even offering £50 quid interest.
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Greysmanicfan41 · 18/03/2019 18:45
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