At some drinks with a friend, chatting to a guy. Everyone quite tipsy and a young crowd. I’m single and a bit insecure right now, I look alright but wasn’t feeling my best - I’m told I’m attractive but have gained a bit of weight and am very petite. Friend is model height and looks good, height obviously gets attention etc.
Wife of big boss comes up and talks to guy we are talking to, I’m able to hear. Shelled a joke about him looking like he’s after one of us and asks which one; he replies “which one do you think?” And they both laugh. She then says “be realistic” and they chat a bit more. I am so so hurt by this, I am at a social for a few days with work people attending and expected to make an effort with them every night. I feel like everyone feels like this way about my friend and the fact we mingle together invites direct comparisons about us. I am going to have plaster on a grin and keep going but feel humiliated. Also heard them say something about how one of the guys really liked her but has a girlfriend. She is obviously the subject of lots of their gossip
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Longhairdontcare12 · 15/03/2019 12:02
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