I've only ever been in relationships where the other person has taken advantage of me in one way or another. Fortunately for the last year I've been with a man who loves everything about me, has never been rude or unkind, goes out of his way to do wonderful and silly things for me, and who is 100% capable of supporting himself.
Yet there's a huge part of me that really struggles with this, and I'm constantly at the point of breaking up with him because there is literally nothing wrong with him and it makes me feel like I'm waiting for him to trip up. Our sex life is incredible, he's the best kisser I've ever encountered and so so generous physically, and the best part is that everything is so comfortable.
Am I being totally mental considering ending this? I know that he'd be so upset and also really frustrated- I've spoken to him about this once and he told me that he wished I could understand how he sees me and how much he loves me. Other than the one discussion he has no idea that this is how I feel, but it's honestly making me feel like a crazy person when I'm otherwise very well balanced.
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PawsAndReflection · 12/03/2019 23:21
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