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AIBU?

To not want to go on holiday with a criminal?

9 replies

puppy23 · 07/03/2019 14:14

I'm booked to go on holiday with my friend next week, but the other day she was arrested and held in custody for a good few hours (she bragged all over social media about this). Yet, she won't tell me what this arrest was for.

AIBU to feel uncomfortable to go abroad for a week alone with her not knowing what she's done???

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maslinpan · 07/03/2019 14:16

You will need to tell her that you are cancelling unless she can tell you what she was arrested for.

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Wondering333 · 07/03/2019 19:50

She’s not a criminal if she hasn’t been convicted of an offence.

Yanbu to want to know what’s happened, especially if she’s talking about it on social media.

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MightyAtlantic · 07/03/2019 19:53

Unless she was arrested on suspicion of murdering her last holiday companion, what does it matter? Wink

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Lulapointless · 07/03/2019 19:54

It might be drug trafficking and she could be using you as a mule

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HerBigChance · 07/03/2019 19:55

It matters if the arrest was about a suspected drug find in a suitcase....

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19lottie82 · 07/03/2019 19:56

You sound a bit precious.

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Raera · 07/03/2019 19:57

She may struggle with passport control

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NuffSaidSam · 07/03/2019 19:58

She's not a criminal if she hasn't been convicted and if she's allowed to travel she's presumably not out on bail (i.e. she hasn't been charged with anything).

It's a weird thing to brag about on social media.

It's also weird to immediately assume your friend must be a criminal.

I don't think she has to tell you what it's about.

If you don't want to go, don't go. You don't have to go on holiday with anyone you don't want to.

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19lottie82 · 07/03/2019 20:00

She may struggle with passport control

I seriously doubt it.

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